Advice on how to give up damaging patterns that entrench negativity and resentment in relationships. You can't change your partner, but you can change yourself, and view others with compassion. This guide offers numerous case studies of couples who have turned failing relationships into happy ones.

In her new book, Susan Page offers you a completely novel approach to improving your relationship. No amount of cajoling and criticising over the years has ever succeeded in changing your partner's hurtful or irritating ways- instead it has merely harmed your relationship. In If We're So In Love, Why Aren't We Happy, Susan Page tells you to give up on damaging patterns that just entrench negativity and resentment. You can't change your partner, but you can change yourself. Discover how to: Break out of your established negative roles; Experiment with new positive actions and reactions to your partner which cause new positive responses in turn; Free yourself from believing you and your partner always have to act together; Have a happy relationship without needing to tackle every difference; View your partner with compassion. Written in an engaging, entertaining style and full of fascinating case studies, If We're So In Love, Why Aren't We Happy offers a fresh new start for every relationship.